Comments on: http://www.femmerotic.com/journal/2006/12/09/four-completely-unrelated-items/ Sat, 22 Nov 2008 06:52:49 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0.1 by: Shawn http://www.femmerotic.com/journal/2006/12/09/four-completely-unrelated-items/#comment-265 Tue, 12 Dec 2006 02:13:13 +0000 http://www.femmerotic.com/journal/2006/12/09/four-completely-unrelated-items/#comment-265 #2 I've been there. Stayed for years. 8 in fact and was raped with in the first few months. "Get the hell out" may not have worked at the time, but it would have been nice to hear from any of the dozen therapists I saw during that time in my life. It's appalling to realize how many people will not say "If someone is raping you, they don't love you". It's weird. I stayed because I was treated like that most of my life and was well trained in not standing up for myself. I never realized how I felt even mattered that much when it came to sex. Intellectually and on the surface I got it, but privately deep down things would get fuzzy and I wouldn't understand and get all disaccociated from it. Anyway- I applaud you and your work. Calling things for what they are really does help, even if it does not appear to right away. During my healing and recovery the words of other people stuck with me and helped me, even if it took a few years for it to really sink in. They things you say do really matter. I think the light in Seattle is a reminder of what amazing light you have in Minneapolis. :) ...and how cool it is here with such a large fan and client base. :) #2 I’ve been there. Stayed for years. 8 in fact and was raped with in the first few months. “Get the hell out” may not have worked at the time, but it would have been nice to hear from any of the dozen therapists I saw during that time in my life. It’s appalling to realize how many people will not say “If someone is raping you, they don’t love you”. It’s weird. I stayed because I was treated like that most of my life and was well trained in not standing up for myself. I never realized how I felt even mattered that much when it came to sex. Intellectually and on the surface I got it, but privately deep down things would get fuzzy and I wouldn’t understand and get all disaccociated from it. Anyway- I applaud you and your work. Calling things for what they are really does help, even if it does not appear to right away. During my healing and recovery the words of other people stuck with me and helped me, even if it took a few years for it to really sink in. They things you say do really matter.

I think the light in Seattle is a reminder of what amazing light you have in Minneapolis. :) …and how cool it is here with such a large fan and client base. :)

]]> by: M http://www.femmerotic.com/journal/2006/12/09/four-completely-unrelated-items/#comment-260 Mon, 11 Dec 2006 04:24:52 +0000 http://www.femmerotic.com/journal/2006/12/09/four-completely-unrelated-items/#comment-260 My god.. I can barely believe #2.. I can't even wrap my head around that. :( My god.. I can barely believe #2.. I can’t even wrap my head around that. :(

]]> by: Heather Corinna http://www.femmerotic.com/journal/2006/12/09/four-completely-unrelated-items/#comment-241 Sat, 09 Dec 2006 22:39:55 +0000 http://www.femmerotic.com/journal/2006/12/09/four-completely-unrelated-items/#comment-241 Alex: I've loved that project for years, and had some emails exchanges with the photographer years back who seems like a totally awesome man. Mark: what are you doing here!? Go back to your hiding place! (Kidding. But I think this may acutally be the first comment you've ever left here, which is really rather odd.) Alex: I’ve loved that project for years, and had some emails exchanges with the photographer years back who seems like a totally awesome man.

Mark: what are you doing here!? Go back to your hiding place!

(Kidding. But I think this may acutally be the first comment you’ve ever left here, which is really rather odd.)

]]> by: Mark http://www.femmerotic.com/journal/2006/12/09/four-completely-unrelated-items/#comment-240 Sat, 09 Dec 2006 21:05:33 +0000 http://www.femmerotic.com/journal/2006/12/09/four-completely-unrelated-items/#comment-240 "Get Your Poop On": Coming Soon to iTunes! “Get Your Poop On”: Coming Soon to iTunes!

]]> by: Alex http://www.femmerotic.com/journal/2006/12/09/four-completely-unrelated-items/#comment-239 Sat, 09 Dec 2006 20:20:08 +0000 http://www.femmerotic.com/journal/2006/12/09/four-completely-unrelated-items/#comment-239 I read your blog all the time and never comment, but have you heard about 'the Century Project?' The Oakland East Bay Express just did an article on it: http://eastbayexpress.com/Issues/2006-12-06/news/feature.html You've probably had a thousand emails about it, but it seemed like something you might be interested in. I read your blog all the time and never comment, but have you heard about ‘the Century Project?’ The Oakland East Bay Express just did an article on it:

http://eastbayexpress.com/Issues/2006-12-06/news/feature.html

You’ve probably had a thousand emails about it, but it seemed like something you might be interested in.

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